Bridge People

A few days ago, I received the latest issue of Sojourners. In light of my series on transformational conversation and the discussion and questions that have followed, I found Brian McLaren’s cover story to be quite timely.

In ”A Bridge Far Enough?” McLaren looks at the idea that we as Christians might be called to be “bridge people” — ministers of reconciliation who are able to relate to and converse with people on both sides of the many polarized chasms that have fractured our nation and our churches. His opening ideas are worth exploring, but I think I will save that for another day. The end of the article, however, is particularly appropriate to our discussion. In fact, I find it so worthwhile that I’d like to quote a large portion of it and then see what you think:

IF THERE IS a rising purple peoplehood out there — people who don’t want to be defined as red or blue, but have elements of both, and for whom faith speaks to both abortion and war, both sexuality and ecology, both family values and fair, respectful treatment for gay people — then we will need to learn new ways of communication. Again, readily confessing that I’m no expert or example, here are a few hunches I have about those new ways of communication — based on the maxim of one of my mentors, who says, “We must teach what Jesus taught in the manner that Jesus taught it.”

1. We must stop answering questions that are framed badly. When Jesus was asked a trick question by representatives of a conservative religio-political party of his day, he didn’t fall for the trap (Luke 20). Rather, he showed how the question was based on false assumptions and used the trick question as an opportunity to expose those false assumptions and instruct the questioners.

2. We must start raising new questions and issues that need to be raised. When Jesus was being tested in another politico-religious interview, he refused to answer the question of whether taxes should be paid to Caesar or not (Matthew 22:17-21). In fact, he cleverly deconstructed and neutered the question and instead pushed another question to the surface: Were those asking the question willing to render to God what is God’s?

3. We must answer questions with questions. Some opponents asked Jesus a trick question for which there was no good answer; rather than falling into their trap, he said he would answer their question if they answered a similarly difficult question (Luke 20:1-8).

4. We must go cleverly deeper. In Jesus’ day, there was plenty of debate over divorce, with clear “liberal” and “conservative” polarities. Jesus went to a deeper level of discourse by dealing with the issue of motives: Were men seeking legal divorces to indulge their lustful desires, trading in their old wife on a sexy younger model — but doing so according to the rules (Matthew 19:3-9)? He exposed the lustful intentions of their hearts on the deeper level rather than merely taking a position on the surface level. Paul did something similar on the controversial question of eating meat sacrificed to idols in his day: It’s the motive that is more important than the policy, he said (Romans 14).

Similarly, when a woman caught in adultery was brought before Jesus and he was asked what should be done to her, he refused to take the “orthodox” conservative line — nor did he take the opposite “liberal” line. Instead, he diverted attention from the woman’s situation entirely, first by writing in the dust and then by shifting attention to the sinfulness of the stone-carrying religious leaders. He cleverly shifted the focus from their game to God’s wiser and higher perspective (John 8:1-11).

5. We must agree with people whenever we can. Survey the gospels and notice how often Jesus said, “You have answered wisely” (for example, see John 4:17 and Luke 10:28). Similarly, we must agree with both conservatives and liberals whenever we can. Conservatives are right, for example, when they affirm the importance of good business in lifting people from poverty. Liberals are also right when they affirm the role of government in not trusting business to always behave well. Conservatives are right that personal sexual integrity really matters; liberals are right when they say there is more to morality than personal sexual integrity.

6. We must speak through action, not just words. When Jesus sought to confront people for their hypocrisy and misplaced priorities, he didn���t argue; instead, he healed a man on the Sabbath. This created a stir that made his point more than any number of well-reasoned arguments could have. So, what we do for those suffering in Darfur may speak more eloquently than anything we say about domestic issues; how we treat our critics privately may speak more loudly to them than what we say in public.

7. We must tell stories. While dining at the house of a Pharisee, Jesus was honored by a woman of ill repute (Luke 7:36-50). When the host and guests began judging him for his failure to adequately judge her, Jesus told a story about economics, debt, and forgiveness. The story abducted the imagination of the critics and transported them to a new vantage point.

How well does this mesh with what I’ve written about in the past, namely the need for conversation marked by truthfulness, openness, and humility? Does this begin to answer Brandon‘s question of what does it mean to “bridge the gap”?

I think there’s a lot here to chew on. Have at it.

5 Ripples from “Bridge People”

Brandon says:

September 7, 2005 at 6:09 am

I’ve got more to say, but for now, just a minor insight…

That last point really reminds me of Kristen’s last post!

Muser says:

September 8, 2005 at 8:09 am

I really, really like Brian McLaren. Now I’m wondering where our latest copy of Sojourners is so that I can read the entire article. He makes some beautiful points here. I need to keep thinking through this.

Brandon says:

September 8, 2005 at 9:09 am

Because I’m officially too dumb to leave a trackback on your site wink , here’s my latest post:

a metaphor for life

Bruce says:

September 8, 2005 at 10:09 pm

I just found your blog, and I like what I see. The quote from McLaren is very timely for me. I’ve been struggling lately with how to answer questions from conservatives who define Christianity very differently than I do. I’m sure they are as frustrated as I am with the direction the conversations usually take.

These suggestions from McLaren are giving me ideas about creative new approaches to dialogue.  Thanks for this post!

zalm says:

September 9, 2005 at 3:09 am

Thanks for introducing yourself, Bruce.  I’m glad you found your way here.

There’s an awful lot in McLaren’s article that I needed to hear as well.  The rest of the article makes some other interesting points, some of which I’m still parsing, but none quite as practical as these.
-----

Put Your Oar In

Name: (required)

Email: (required, but will never be published)

Website URL:

Remember me next time | Notify me of replies

Live Preview